Complete lack of energy on phone calls/real life?

[isoman2kx]

Just recently, I got off the phone with a chick where 20 mins was perhaps the worst phone call I've done in a while. We played the question game again, but she didn't respond with anything but one-liners almost to some questions that weren't exactly those you respond with 5 words with. She even asked me at one point what my favorite tv show was?

The deal is, this happened on a date last night too with another chick, I couldn't really get my energy up enough and maybe that's what that date seemed like it lacked fun too, just like my phone call (the call and the date are two separate chicks though).

What's the deal with me here? What can I do to get my energy level up with chicks to the point where they won't respond with one line answers. In turn, how can I get my energy level up to the point where I don't seem like I'm bored to death on every question?

-iso

 

[Alphamale1821]

dates shouldn't be a phucking interview process it's not all about questions. Tell stories or make comments about things you observe. Use your surrounding to your advantage. As for getting your energy up i don't eat more food, get more sleep. Tell yourself that if i have more energy then i will enjoy myself more.

 

[Obsidian]

and work out maybe twice a week if you don't already. try to do some push-ups and crunches about every day in your spare time

And don't talk on phones for more than a few minutes at a time. In doing so, you're acting like a woman.

 

[isoman2kx]

and work out maybe twice a week if you don't already. try to do some push-ups and crunches about every day in your spare time

And don't talk on phones for more than a few minutes at a time. In doing so, you're acting like a woman.

does going to the gym or just working out really help a ton?

because i used to go every day months back and it sorta helped me. nothing over the top though.

maybe there's more strenuous activities that make ya forget about things?

 

[Obsidian]

i'm not a fitness expert, but I think you can maximize your utility from going if you just go 2-3 times a week and work out hard for maybe a little over half an hour (that's what I try to do). If you want to become the next Gov. Arnold, maybe you can go every day, but I don't think it's necessary.

on the days that i don't go to the gym, tho, i usually do about 70 pushups (2 x 35) and about 180 crunches (2 x 90), and sometimes I run a mile

 

[dap]

Maybe before you go out on a date, etc, listen to some music that gets you in the right mindset. If all you are getting is one liners, tell them: "What's the deal with all the one liners? I feel like you are holding something back?" Whatever the problem, make sure they know its their problem and not yours.