"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Completcated woman. (Are there any other kinds?)

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Well there is this girl I like. But several things are the problem. She mainipulated my best freind but he is cool if I date her. She also has feelings for a total prick. I don't know how to get her to really like me. I mean we click and everything even haveing prolonged conversations. But I would really like to know what to do to get her to stop chaseing this jerk and see me in a whole new light. (I've been reaing the bible yes.) She had gone out with this guy beofre twice and broke up each time. The last time it was he who broke it off.

Also T-Roy is my wingman if you know him. So you can inclucde him in any plans and he'll help.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ehh no. I don't really know her well enough to be in the friend zone.
 

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You just have to be the better catch then the other guy... Make your impressions good and don't be too aviable. Use the push-pull technique/theory and step up the kino/flirting. Take her on action dates. Simple things like this will help you. But, before you decide you like her look at it like this. She manipulated ur best friend and is also going after another guy. She either just likes the attention or is just looking for the right guy. You must decide for yourself which one it is.
 

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Thanks good advice. I'll think about it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Loacker said:
Hahahah holy crap that cracked me the f*** up!
ppl's problems are funny eh? though now i admit she ain't worth it
 
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