"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Completcated woman. (Are there any other kinds?)

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Well there is this girl I like. But several things are the problem. She mainipulated my best freind but he is cool if I date her. She also has feelings for a total prick. I don't know how to get her to really like me. I mean we click and everything even haveing prolonged conversations. But I would really like to know what to do to get her to stop chaseing this jerk and see me in a whole new light. (I've been reaing the bible yes.) She had gone out with this guy beofre twice and broke up each time. The last time it was he who broke it off.

Also T-Roy is my wingman if you know him. So you can inclucde him in any plans and he'll help.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ehh no. I don't really know her well enough to be in the friend zone.
 

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You just have to be the better catch then the other guy... Make your impressions good and don't be too aviable. Use the push-pull technique/theory and step up the kino/flirting. Take her on action dates. Simple things like this will help you. But, before you decide you like her look at it like this. She manipulated ur best friend and is also going after another guy. She either just likes the attention or is just looking for the right guy. You must decide for yourself which one it is.
 

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Thanks good advice. I'll think about it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Loacker said:
Hahahah holy crap that cracked me the f*** up!
ppl's problems are funny eh? though now i admit she ain't worth it
 
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