"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Completcated woman. (Are there any other kinds?)

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Well there is this girl I like. But several things are the problem. She mainipulated my best freind but he is cool if I date her. She also has feelings for a total prick. I don't know how to get her to really like me. I mean we click and everything even haveing prolonged conversations. But I would really like to know what to do to get her to stop chaseing this jerk and see me in a whole new light. (I've been reaing the bible yes.) She had gone out with this guy beofre twice and broke up each time. The last time it was he who broke it off.

Also T-Roy is my wingman if you know him. So you can inclucde him in any plans and he'll help.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ehh no. I don't really know her well enough to be in the friend zone.
 

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You just have to be the better catch then the other guy... Make your impressions good and don't be too aviable. Use the push-pull technique/theory and step up the kino/flirting. Take her on action dates. Simple things like this will help you. But, before you decide you like her look at it like this. She manipulated ur best friend and is also going after another guy. She either just likes the attention or is just looking for the right guy. You must decide for yourself which one it is.
 

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Thanks good advice. I'll think about it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Loacker said:
Hahahah holy crap that cracked me the f*** up!
ppl's problems are funny eh? though now i admit she ain't worth it
 
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