"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJnoob

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and after. Did it really improve at all with women?

Im talking about YOU now with muscles, veiny arms, bigger biceps, etc etc
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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foomee

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well i went from one girl interested in me a month... to right now i have about 5 that would wanna f*** me, and 2 that want to date me. i'm in college right now. this was before christmas, and after. during christmas break i worked out quite quite a bit. went from 134lbs to 152lbs in less than a month time. i'm nice and toned, my arms are spectacular, and i have tons of confidence.
 

dirtyvibe

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Originally posted by foomee
well i went from one girl interested in me a month... to right now i have about 5 that would wanna f*** me, and 2 that want to date me. i'm in college right now. this was before christmas, and after. during christmas break i worked out quite quite a bit. went from 134lbs to 152lbs in less than a month time. i'm nice and toned, my arms are spectacular, and i have tons of confidence.
134 to 152 in less than a month? did you used to be fat or muscular?
 

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After going from skinny to athletic, I was way WAY more confident.

So I had two things: Decent looks (which help) AND confidence (which helps even more). It's a win-win situation. So, get off your fat ass and get in shape.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There's a post made by Pook that described that clearly indicated that when he was a smaller man only average women paid attention to him, and as his story progresses telling about how he became more buff he suddenly started attracting hotter women.
 
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