"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJnoob

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and after. Did it really improve at all with women?

Im talking about YOU now with muscles, veiny arms, bigger biceps, etc etc
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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foomee

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well i went from one girl interested in me a month... to right now i have about 5 that would wanna f*** me, and 2 that want to date me. i'm in college right now. this was before christmas, and after. during christmas break i worked out quite quite a bit. went from 134lbs to 152lbs in less than a month time. i'm nice and toned, my arms are spectacular, and i have tons of confidence.
 

dirtyvibe

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Originally posted by foomee
well i went from one girl interested in me a month... to right now i have about 5 that would wanna f*** me, and 2 that want to date me. i'm in college right now. this was before christmas, and after. during christmas break i worked out quite quite a bit. went from 134lbs to 152lbs in less than a month time. i'm nice and toned, my arms are spectacular, and i have tons of confidence.
134 to 152 in less than a month? did you used to be fat or muscular?
 

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After going from skinny to athletic, I was way WAY more confident.

So I had two things: Decent looks (which help) AND confidence (which helps even more). It's a win-win situation. So, get off your fat ass and get in shape.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Warlord

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There's a post made by Pook that described that clearly indicated that when he was a smaller man only average women paid attention to him, and as his story progresses telling about how he became more buff he suddenly started attracting hotter women.
 
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