"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJnoob

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and after. Did it really improve at all with women?

Im talking about YOU now with muscles, veiny arms, bigger biceps, etc etc
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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foomee

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well i went from one girl interested in me a month... to right now i have about 5 that would wanna f*** me, and 2 that want to date me. i'm in college right now. this was before christmas, and after. during christmas break i worked out quite quite a bit. went from 134lbs to 152lbs in less than a month time. i'm nice and toned, my arms are spectacular, and i have tons of confidence.
 

dirtyvibe

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Originally posted by foomee
well i went from one girl interested in me a month... to right now i have about 5 that would wanna f*** me, and 2 that want to date me. i'm in college right now. this was before christmas, and after. during christmas break i worked out quite quite a bit. went from 134lbs to 152lbs in less than a month time. i'm nice and toned, my arms are spectacular, and i have tons of confidence.
134 to 152 in less than a month? did you used to be fat or muscular?
 

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After going from skinny to athletic, I was way WAY more confident.

So I had two things: Decent looks (which help) AND confidence (which helps even more). It's a win-win situation. So, get off your fat ass and get in shape.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Warlord

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There's a post made by Pook that described that clearly indicated that when he was a smaller man only average women paid attention to him, and as his story progresses telling about how he became more buff he suddenly started attracting hotter women.
 
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