"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Commuting for dates?

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Serg897

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Hello everyone - simple question here.

Last night I was out in a nearby big city, about an hour away. Huge opportunities to meet women in some of the places there. I got one number from a girl that appeared to be very interested.

However, what turns me off is the potential commute. Why would I spend time calling girls who live an hour away when I could be going on dates locally?

What are your perspectives on this. What is the maximum distance you will go to see a woman?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ive been on a lot of dates outside my local area. The furthest Ive been is probably about 1.5 hour drive away and we went out several times. I get free and or heavily discounted rail travel so I tend to use that. There is a limit as to how far I'd travel though.
 
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I would think about the success you're having in your own area first and whether that's enough for you. Is it?

If it's not, are there things you can do to change it?

Naturally, if you're exhausting all available options where you are and that isn't cutting it, go somewhere else. But I wouldn't want to commute to see a girl if I didn't have to. P*ssy is p*ssy whether it takes you 10 minutes to get there or an hour.
 
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