"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Commuting for dates?

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Serg897

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Hello everyone - simple question here.

Last night I was out in a nearby big city, about an hour away. Huge opportunities to meet women in some of the places there. I got one number from a girl that appeared to be very interested.

However, what turns me off is the potential commute. Why would I spend time calling girls who live an hour away when I could be going on dates locally?

What are your perspectives on this. What is the maximum distance you will go to see a woman?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ive been on a lot of dates outside my local area. The furthest Ive been is probably about 1.5 hour drive away and we went out several times. I get free and or heavily discounted rail travel so I tend to use that. There is a limit as to how far I'd travel though.
 
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I would think about the success you're having in your own area first and whether that's enough for you. Is it?

If it's not, are there things you can do to change it?

Naturally, if you're exhausting all available options where you are and that isn't cutting it, go somewhere else. But I wouldn't want to commute to see a girl if I didn't have to. P*ssy is p*ssy whether it takes you 10 minutes to get there or an hour.
 
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