"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sucks.

I got classes with a few pretty girls, but have no personality or act rude around me. The very second class is over everyone bolts for the door, get in their cars, and go home. Small talk is not my strong point, I'd say stuff related to the class, ask questions when I already knew the answer, and try to set things up. It either goes to not giving out their numbers, too busy, etc.

I checked the college clubs, but since it's such a small ass school, nothing is happening or has clubs that I would NEVER be interested in.

Bottom line, it's not an option to me anymore. I have somewhat better luck in clubs (for those who have been following my posts) but still nothing really comes out of it.

It's gotten bad where I had to call up escorts and massage parlors, ugh. I don't have a problem talking to them and getting a number on the first encounter. But I seem to fall apart after that, no returned calls or even picked up calls.

Any advice from you guys?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It sounds like you are living in a situation in which mediocrity is tolerated and therefore pervasive. Your best bet is to move. Move to an entirely new town. This does involve some risk, and there is the possibility that you will wind up back where you started (at least temporarily) but it will fuel your drive to move away again.

Once you get a taste of the good life, you will never want to return to the life situation of mediocrity you seem to find yourself in at the moment.
 
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You're probably right, however I am living with my parents and they have my life tightly secure. Such that, if I don't let them know where I will be, I get a call asking if I'm safe. I know they mean well, but I'm an adult.

Until I graduate, I don't see myself having freedom to move.

P.S. I'm also terrible at getting an escort, FML
 
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