"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sucks.

I got classes with a few pretty girls, but have no personality or act rude around me. The very second class is over everyone bolts for the door, get in their cars, and go home. Small talk is not my strong point, I'd say stuff related to the class, ask questions when I already knew the answer, and try to set things up. It either goes to not giving out their numbers, too busy, etc.

I checked the college clubs, but since it's such a small ass school, nothing is happening or has clubs that I would NEVER be interested in.

Bottom line, it's not an option to me anymore. I have somewhat better luck in clubs (for those who have been following my posts) but still nothing really comes out of it.

It's gotten bad where I had to call up escorts and massage parlors, ugh. I don't have a problem talking to them and getting a number on the first encounter. But I seem to fall apart after that, no returned calls or even picked up calls.

Any advice from you guys?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It sounds like you are living in a situation in which mediocrity is tolerated and therefore pervasive. Your best bet is to move. Move to an entirely new town. This does involve some risk, and there is the possibility that you will wind up back where you started (at least temporarily) but it will fuel your drive to move away again.

Once you get a taste of the good life, you will never want to return to the life situation of mediocrity you seem to find yourself in at the moment.
 
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You're probably right, however I am living with my parents and they have my life tightly secure. Such that, if I don't let them know where I will be, I get a call asking if I'm safe. I know they mean well, but I'm an adult.

Until I graduate, I don't see myself having freedom to move.

P.S. I'm also terrible at getting an escort, FML
 
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