"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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communication problems help!!!

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I am 19yld, and am finding it hard to communicate not only with girl, but guys too...by having this problem im feeling depressed and more isloated. For most people my age they enjoy life' going out clubbin, and other activities. But i find myself at home on friday nights and weekends...i havent got loads of mates that i can go out with' just because all my mates are pakistani, which means they got a strict way of life and also means am stuck at home again.

Its really started get bad' am starting to get blackouts...i badly need a social life now or am going to crack!!

I really need some B.I.G advice !!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think you know the answer. Go make some new friends that enjoy what you do. It doesn't mean you have to dump your current ones. If you're getting blackouts maybe it's time to see a doctor. Only you make yourself feel isolated.
 
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Work on your confidence and self esteem and you'll see things improving.
 
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Dont feel bad man, there are alot of people out there who dont have much of a social life either, building a social network takes time man. Before you head into the real world, try working on your confidence....confidence will get you a long way man.

I hope everything turns out better for you bro
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don't look at this time as depressing, look at it as time for you to grow. I say pick up a hobby or join a club that you are interested in. That way you already have something in common with the people there and it will make socializing easier.
 
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