"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am 19yld, and am finding it hard to communicate not only with girl, but guys too...by having this problem im feeling depressed and more isloated. For most people my age they enjoy life' going out clubbin, and other activities. But i find myself at home on friday nights and weekends...i havent got loads of mates that i can go out with' just because all my mates are pakistani, which means they got a strict way of life and also means am stuck at home again.

Its really started get bad' am starting to get blackouts...i badly need a social life now or am going to crack!!

I really need some B.I.G advice !!!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think you know the answer. Go make some new friends that enjoy what you do. It doesn't mean you have to dump your current ones. If you're getting blackouts maybe it's time to see a doctor. Only you make yourself feel isolated.
 
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Work on your confidence and self esteem and you'll see things improving.
 
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Dont feel bad man, there are alot of people out there who dont have much of a social life either, building a social network takes time man. Before you head into the real world, try working on your confidence....confidence will get you a long way man.

I hope everything turns out better for you bro
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Don't look at this time as depressing, look at it as time for you to grow. I say pick up a hobby or join a club that you are interested in. That way you already have something in common with the people there and it will make socializing easier.
 
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