"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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communication problems help!!!

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I am 19yld, and am finding it hard to communicate not only with girl, but guys too...by having this problem im feeling depressed and more isloated. For most people my age they enjoy life' going out clubbin, and other activities. But i find myself at home on friday nights and weekends...i havent got loads of mates that i can go out with' just because all my mates are pakistani, which means they got a strict way of life and also means am stuck at home again.

Its really started get bad' am starting to get blackouts...i badly need a social life now or am going to crack!!

I really need some B.I.G advice !!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think you know the answer. Go make some new friends that enjoy what you do. It doesn't mean you have to dump your current ones. If you're getting blackouts maybe it's time to see a doctor. Only you make yourself feel isolated.
 
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Work on your confidence and self esteem and you'll see things improving.
 
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Dont feel bad man, there are alot of people out there who dont have much of a social life either, building a social network takes time man. Before you head into the real world, try working on your confidence....confidence will get you a long way man.

I hope everything turns out better for you bro
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't look at this time as depressing, look at it as time for you to grow. I say pick up a hobby or join a club that you are interested in. That way you already have something in common with the people there and it will make socializing easier.
 
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