Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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communication problems help!!!

cesar

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I am 19yld, and am finding it hard to communicate not only with girl, but guys too...by having this problem im feeling depressed and more isloated. For most people my age they enjoy life' going out clubbin, and other activities. But i find myself at home on friday nights and weekends...i havent got loads of mates that i can go out with' just because all my mates are pakistani, which means they got a strict way of life and also means am stuck at home again.

Its really started get bad' am starting to get blackouts...i badly need a social life now or am going to crack!!

I really need some B.I.G advice !!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SickAgain

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I think you know the answer. Go make some new friends that enjoy what you do. It doesn't mean you have to dump your current ones. If you're getting blackouts maybe it's time to see a doctor. Only you make yourself feel isolated.
 

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Work on your confidence and self esteem and you'll see things improving.
 

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Dont feel bad man, there are alot of people out there who dont have much of a social life either, building a social network takes time man. Before you head into the real world, try working on your confidence....confidence will get you a long way man.

I hope everything turns out better for you bro
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don't look at this time as depressing, look at it as time for you to grow. I say pick up a hobby or join a club that you are interested in. That way you already have something in common with the people there and it will make socializing easier.
 
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