Vincent Freeman
Don Juan
A buddy of mine asked me this the other day, but I didn't know what to say. In a LDR relationship, how often should you talk to your gf?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Communication in a LDR
- Thread starter Vincent Freeman
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
LDR's don't work.
pure and simple.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
There's no such thing as an LDR, one or both of you will eventually meet someone else. Don't subscribe to this romanticized mythology. There are of course LDBCs - long distance booty calls.
True words.
The basis of a relationship is the concept that you spend time together. Tough to do from a distance.
Tell your buddy that he should only talk to her during that brief moment when his last chick is jumping out the window and the next one is waiting at the front door.
The Anti Dr Phil
Don Juan
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LDR's means both parties are single.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
LDR = Let's Dilute Reality.
And this is from a guy who has a woman in Arizona writing him regularly. To tell the truth, I forget that she exists until I an email from her.
And this is from a guy who has a woman in Arizona writing him regularly. To tell the truth, I forget that she exists until I an email from her.