Communication during vacation

[BJP1991]

Hey Everybody,

Been seeing a girl for almost a month now, 4 total dates, sex on 3 of them.

After our most recent date she left for a week vacation out of state visiting family. She already talked about calling me and seeing me when she gets back sometime next week.

In situations like this, do you try to get any text communication going when either you or the other is on a vacation, and you already have the conception that you’ll be talking and seeing one another once you/she returns?

Overall, we don’t text too much and actually have done more calling than texting in the last month of going out.

 

[BJP1991]

Perfect opportunity for you to show her your not needy. Let her vacation. If she texts then keep replies light. Let her send some cool pictures and enjoy the time away from her. At 4 months and this is anxiety for you tells me you should work on your inner state of mind.

Thanks for the input - this is pretty much what I’m doing anyways, was just more curious how others roll with situations like this. I prefer to let women come to me anyways, and so far everything has gone well with that in the past and in this particular instance. Just trying to learn and get better is all. No anxiety about it whatsoever - I actually went on a killer date last night with an entirely new girl, so I’m still dating other women. I’m honestly just curious and open to learning more.

The girl in question is 4 dates in one month, not 4 months.

 

[Glassguy]

You should do what you want. That is having a solid frame.

The only thing that would be detrimental to this would be blowing her phone up. If you want some communication, its perfectly ok. Just let her enjoy her vacation without being glued to her phone responding to your endless texts.