"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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handle it. You meet a girl in a bar get rapport going get her number and the whole time you know she is waiting for her friend/friends or maybe some kind of boyfriend in the early stages. They show up and one of the guys appears to be of interest to the girl or maybe not vice versa on her part. How do you handle that situation? You already got her number do you just disappear and let that whole social circle thing play out or what? happens a lot where you meet a girl and she gives you her number but some mysteroius guy friend shows up through some earlier in the night meet up plan on her end.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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remotecontrol said:
You can choose to do either...sometimes i stick around and sometimes i take off. It depends on how much interest she shows in me prior to the other guy showing up...if i sense a high interest level ill stick around and see if this guy is a boyfriend or just a friend...if she clearly wants rid of me when another guy shows up she will indicate it to me.
Yeah she referred to these guys as friends when I was talking to her an hour before they showed up. Sometimes its a bunch of guy queens that are their fag hag buddies or some hangers on guys that are truly just friends....thats why I always try to close for a ph number when these situations arise.....its just seems that girls that are even decent looking have more guys than they know what to do with these days and couple that with most bars being a sausage fest anyway it makes for a real headache sometimes.
 
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