handle it. You meet a girl in a bar get rapport going get her number and the whole time you know she is waiting for her friend/friends or maybe some kind of boyfriend in the early stages. They show up and one of the guys appears to be of interest to the girl or maybe not vice versa on her part. How do you handle that situation? You already got her number do you just disappear and let that whole social circle thing play out or what? happens a lot where you meet a girl and she gives you her number but some mysteroius guy friend shows up through some earlier in the night meet up plan on her end.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Common situation and how to
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