handle it. You meet a girl in a bar get rapport going get her number and the whole time you know she is waiting for her friend/friends or maybe some kind of boyfriend in the early stages. They show up and one of the guys appears to be of interest to the girl or maybe not vice versa on her part. How do you handle that situation? You already got her number do you just disappear and let that whole social circle thing play out or what? happens a lot where you meet a girl and she gives you her number but some mysteroius guy friend shows up through some earlier in the night meet up plan on her end.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Common situation and how to
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