handle it. You meet a girl in a bar get rapport going get her number and the whole time you know she is waiting for her friend/friends or maybe some kind of boyfriend in the early stages. They show up and one of the guys appears to be of interest to the girl or maybe not vice versa on her part. How do you handle that situation? You already got her number do you just disappear and let that whole social circle thing play out or what? happens a lot where you meet a girl and she gives you her number but some mysteroius guy friend shows up through some earlier in the night meet up plan on her end.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Common situation and how to
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