"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Common phrases used by women

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Hey guys, I want to hear some common phrases that women used on you when you break up. Can you guys contribute?
Here are some examples I know of;

"I love you but not in love with you anymore."
"I need space"
"We need to take a break"

and lately, "I'm confused" <--- this is the first time i heard this! Threw me off guard and into a Captain Save a Ho
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WOW! What's the point in this?!

I think we all recognize a dumb when we see one. :D

I'm going to focus on something else that acctually means something! Later, have fun in this thread!

Or should I say, "I just need some time for myself?

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Take a look at Pook's 'Womenese" thread. You will get a full collection of common phrases used by woman AND what the phrases really mean!
 
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"You're a nice guy, but..."
"You're so sweet, but..."
"You'll find the right girl someday."

Words that hit hard as fists.
 
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"You're an ass hole!"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Let me call you back later..." when they never do.
 
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dannyegg4575 said:
Hey guys, I want to hear some common phrases that women used on you when you break up. Can you guys contribute?
Here are some examples I know of;

Your replies:

"I love you but not in love with you anymore." - I hear you. It's hard to be in love with someone for a long time.

"I need space" - Sure. Just let me know when you're done need space.

"We need to take a break" - OK. Call me when you decide we are not on a break like Ross and Rachel.

and lately, "I'm confused" - Me too. That collapse by Memphis was very confusing.
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"It is not you it is me!"

"I am not ready for this commitment it is not your fault"

"You are too good for me"

"your **** is too small and you dont go down on me enough" ..... Oh no I am wrong, that is just what we think, we verablise the above! lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"I'm confused" usually means "I don't love you, but I want to keep you on a string. Unknown to you, I have another sucker on a string too."
 
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The phrase I like to hear from them:

"Your SOOO MEAN!" Then they give me a playful slap...and I give them one right back ;)
 
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"I'm confused" - Me too. That collapse by Memphis was very confusing.
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muhahahahhaa


man... she even said this, this is a good one...are you guys ready for this?

"I want someone who loves me more than I love him."

lmao!!!
 
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Her: "No"
Me: "Why not?"
Her: "Because I don't want to"
Me: "click" (phone has been hung up)

There is no use in wasting time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This comes from a favourite email forward.

It's your decision = "The correct decision should be obvious by now."

Do what you want = "You'll pay for this later."

We need to talk = "I need to complain."

We need = "I want"

I'm not upset = "Of course I'm upset, you moron!"

You're so manly = "You need a shave and you sweat a lot."

This kitchen is so inconvenient = "I want a new house."

Hang the picture there = "NO, I mean hang it there!"

I heard a noise = "I noticed you were almost asleep."

Do you love me? = "I'm going to ask for something expensive."

How much do you love me? = "I did something today you're really not going to like."

I'll be ready in a minute = "Kick off your shoes and find a good game on TV."

Nothing is wrong. = "Everything is wrong!!!"
 
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Lishy said:
"It is not you it is me!"

"I am not ready for this commitment it is not your fault"

"You are too good for me"

"your **** is too small and you dont go down on me enough" ..... Oh no I am wrong, that is just what we think, we verablise the above! lol
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lmao!!! ******** is such a beautiful language!
 
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