"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Commiting to an LTR?

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Stingers

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So I have been dating this girl for 3 months, she is LTR material after dealing with her parents things seemed to turn out for the best. She is a smart, talented girl with suprisingly good looks and a dirty side :up:. so I was thinking is it time to slow down with a really chill girl stay for a little while. (BUT STILL DO SOME APPROACHES AND GET SOME NUMBERS) or is it just too soon? what do you guys think?

EDIT: i only used commit for lack of a better word. What i mean is to "slow down with a chill girl for a bit and have some fun" sort of like it says in the 3rd sentence.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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blindnowisee

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You're 16 years old.. Live your life before "committing".. That's not a word a 16 year old should have in their vocabulary ;-)
 
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If she's a great girl and it's what you want, then fine, make the relationship something a bit more solid.

BUT! Right now you're at the age where you're finding out which are your best mates and who you'll probably be friends for life with. Do NOT see this girl so exclusively that you basically cut all ties with your other friends. That's a hard one to salvage.

Bring her into your group, don't let her cut you out of it.
 
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