"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Commiting to an LTR?

Stingers

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So I have been dating this girl for 3 months, she is LTR material after dealing with her parents things seemed to turn out for the best. She is a smart, talented girl with suprisingly good looks and a dirty side :up:. so I was thinking is it time to slow down with a really chill girl stay for a little while. (BUT STILL DO SOME APPROACHES AND GET SOME NUMBERS) or is it just too soon? what do you guys think?

EDIT: i only used commit for lack of a better word. What i mean is to "slow down with a chill girl for a bit and have some fun" sort of like it says in the 3rd sentence.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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blindnowisee

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You're 16 years old.. Live your life before "committing".. That's not a word a 16 year old should have in their vocabulary ;-)
 

Cremasta

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If she's a great girl and it's what you want, then fine, make the relationship something a bit more solid.

BUT! Right now you're at the age where you're finding out which are your best mates and who you'll probably be friends for life with. Do NOT see this girl so exclusively that you basically cut all ties with your other friends. That's a hard one to salvage.

Bring her into your group, don't let her cut you out of it.
 
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