"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Commiting to an LTR?

Stingers

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So I have been dating this girl for 3 months, she is LTR material after dealing with her parents things seemed to turn out for the best. She is a smart, talented girl with suprisingly good looks and a dirty side :up:. so I was thinking is it time to slow down with a really chill girl stay for a little while. (BUT STILL DO SOME APPROACHES AND GET SOME NUMBERS) or is it just too soon? what do you guys think?

EDIT: i only used commit for lack of a better word. What i mean is to "slow down with a chill girl for a bit and have some fun" sort of like it says in the 3rd sentence.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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blindnowisee

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You're 16 years old.. Live your life before "committing".. That's not a word a 16 year old should have in their vocabulary ;-)
 

Cremasta

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If she's a great girl and it's what you want, then fine, make the relationship something a bit more solid.

BUT! Right now you're at the age where you're finding out which are your best mates and who you'll probably be friends for life with. Do NOT see this girl so exclusively that you basically cut all ties with your other friends. That's a hard one to salvage.

Bring her into your group, don't let her cut you out of it.
 
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