"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Comments on your looks.What do u guys answer?

NeedToImprove

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what do u answer when a girl comments something about your looks, eyes, lips, whatever...


do u answer in a playful manner like: i know, girls keep telling me that or yeah i know i'm hot, i know my eyes are cute

or do u guys simply give a thank you and reply with a comment on her looks as well?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Damian

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Usually a girl will say,
"I like your *BLANK*", or
"I think your *BLANK* looks *compliment*"

I like to reply with:

"Thanks, so do I!" and give a nice grin.

If they are fishing for compliments, I usually spot them out instantly for it.

"You're just fishing for a compliment." and shake my head.

Keeps a strong DHV and does well at enforcing a frame reversal.
 

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Ok theres different situations based on my mood.

(happy): oh thanks, you dont look bad yourself.

(feeling DJ): thanks, id say your *comment* too, but you're kinda weird.

(not really feeling much): oh thanks.

(don't feel like DJin): ok, thanks.

(stressed or dont want to talk): heh, thanks.
 

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If you are going to compliment her back, do it in a way that compliments you as well, i.e.

"Oh you have such great taste! That's what I like about you!"


Or another classic.

"You don't like my hat, you're just attracted to me. ;) "

"So do I!" Is another great one.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I usually go with "Your only saying that because you want to get in my pants" or "Funny you should mention that, because the last girl who tried to seduce me said the same thing" or "Sure *whatever body part* looks nice but you should feel it"
 

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"Yeah, I get that a lot." is usually my response, in a joking manner of course.
 

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"I wish girls would stop telling me how good my ___ looks, there's more to me than my looks."

or if you feel like being a jerk

"Wish I could say the same thing about you."

or

"Are YOU trying to hit on me?!?!?" and if she says "no" i'd say "that's too bad, because i liked it"

a little less subtle would be

"Thanks, I wasn't even trying." and if you wanted you could add "Thanks, I wasn't even trying. Unlike you."
 

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Originally posted by T Money
"Yeah, I get that a lot." is usually my response, in a joking manner of course.
I use this line, even on things that have nothing to do with looks.

For instance, I brought a girl back to my place one time, was giving her the "tour" of the place, and pointed out my TV. I said "Oh yeah and here's the living room, sofas, oh, and of course the TV"
Her: "jesus christ, that's the biggest one I've ever seen!"
Me: "Yeah I get that a lot."
she didn't get it for a second, then she turned around and smacked me on the arm with this grin on her face.

I love double entendres :D
 
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