"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Comments on your looks.What do u guys answer?

NeedToImprove

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what do u answer when a girl comments something about your looks, eyes, lips, whatever...


do u answer in a playful manner like: i know, girls keep telling me that or yeah i know i'm hot, i know my eyes are cute

or do u guys simply give a thank you and reply with a comment on her looks as well?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Damian

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Usually a girl will say,
"I like your *BLANK*", or
"I think your *BLANK* looks *compliment*"

I like to reply with:

"Thanks, so do I!" and give a nice grin.

If they are fishing for compliments, I usually spot them out instantly for it.

"You're just fishing for a compliment." and shake my head.

Keeps a strong DHV and does well at enforcing a frame reversal.
 

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Ok theres different situations based on my mood.

(happy): oh thanks, you dont look bad yourself.

(feeling DJ): thanks, id say your *comment* too, but you're kinda weird.

(not really feeling much): oh thanks.

(don't feel like DJin): ok, thanks.

(stressed or dont want to talk): heh, thanks.
 

nishbuk

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If you are going to compliment her back, do it in a way that compliments you as well, i.e.

"Oh you have such great taste! That's what I like about you!"


Or another classic.

"You don't like my hat, you're just attracted to me. ;) "

"So do I!" Is another great one.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Doc Dogg

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I usually go with "Your only saying that because you want to get in my pants" or "Funny you should mention that, because the last girl who tried to seduce me said the same thing" or "Sure *whatever body part* looks nice but you should feel it"
 

T Money

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"Yeah, I get that a lot." is usually my response, in a joking manner of course.
 

DJHoolahoop

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"I wish girls would stop telling me how good my ___ looks, there's more to me than my looks."

or if you feel like being a jerk

"Wish I could say the same thing about you."

or

"Are YOU trying to hit on me?!?!?" and if she says "no" i'd say "that's too bad, because i liked it"

a little less subtle would be

"Thanks, I wasn't even trying." and if you wanted you could add "Thanks, I wasn't even trying. Unlike you."
 

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Originally posted by T Money
"Yeah, I get that a lot." is usually my response, in a joking manner of course.
I use this line, even on things that have nothing to do with looks.

For instance, I brought a girl back to my place one time, was giving her the "tour" of the place, and pointed out my TV. I said "Oh yeah and here's the living room, sofas, oh, and of course the TV"
Her: "jesus christ, that's the biggest one I've ever seen!"
Me: "Yeah I get that a lot."
she didn't get it for a second, then she turned around and smacked me on the arm with this grin on her face.

I love double entendres :D
 
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