Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Comments on your looks.What do u guys answer?

NeedToImprove

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what do u answer when a girl comments something about your looks, eyes, lips, whatever...


do u answer in a playful manner like: i know, girls keep telling me that or yeah i know i'm hot, i know my eyes are cute

or do u guys simply give a thank you and reply with a comment on her looks as well?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Damian

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Usually a girl will say,
"I like your *BLANK*", or
"I think your *BLANK* looks *compliment*"

I like to reply with:

"Thanks, so do I!" and give a nice grin.

If they are fishing for compliments, I usually spot them out instantly for it.

"You're just fishing for a compliment." and shake my head.

Keeps a strong DHV and does well at enforcing a frame reversal.
 

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Ok theres different situations based on my mood.

(happy): oh thanks, you dont look bad yourself.

(feeling DJ): thanks, id say your *comment* too, but you're kinda weird.

(not really feeling much): oh thanks.

(don't feel like DJin): ok, thanks.

(stressed or dont want to talk): heh, thanks.
 

nishbuk

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If you are going to compliment her back, do it in a way that compliments you as well, i.e.

"Oh you have such great taste! That's what I like about you!"


Or another classic.

"You don't like my hat, you're just attracted to me. ;) "

"So do I!" Is another great one.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I usually go with "Your only saying that because you want to get in my pants" or "Funny you should mention that, because the last girl who tried to seduce me said the same thing" or "Sure *whatever body part* looks nice but you should feel it"
 

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"Yeah, I get that a lot." is usually my response, in a joking manner of course.
 

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"I wish girls would stop telling me how good my ___ looks, there's more to me than my looks."

or if you feel like being a jerk

"Wish I could say the same thing about you."

or

"Are YOU trying to hit on me?!?!?" and if she says "no" i'd say "that's too bad, because i liked it"

a little less subtle would be

"Thanks, I wasn't even trying." and if you wanted you could add "Thanks, I wasn't even trying. Unlike you."
 

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Originally posted by T Money
"Yeah, I get that a lot." is usually my response, in a joking manner of course.
I use this line, even on things that have nothing to do with looks.

For instance, I brought a girl back to my place one time, was giving her the "tour" of the place, and pointed out my TV. I said "Oh yeah and here's the living room, sofas, oh, and of course the TV"
Her: "jesus christ, that's the biggest one I've ever seen!"
Me: "Yeah I get that a lot."
she didn't get it for a second, then she turned around and smacked me on the arm with this grin on her face.

I love double entendres :D
 
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