"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Comments on your looks.What do u guys answer?

NeedToImprove

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what do u answer when a girl comments something about your looks, eyes, lips, whatever...


do u answer in a playful manner like: i know, girls keep telling me that or yeah i know i'm hot, i know my eyes are cute

or do u guys simply give a thank you and reply with a comment on her looks as well?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Damian

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Usually a girl will say,
"I like your *BLANK*", or
"I think your *BLANK* looks *compliment*"

I like to reply with:

"Thanks, so do I!" and give a nice grin.

If they are fishing for compliments, I usually spot them out instantly for it.

"You're just fishing for a compliment." and shake my head.

Keeps a strong DHV and does well at enforcing a frame reversal.
 

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Ok theres different situations based on my mood.

(happy): oh thanks, you dont look bad yourself.

(feeling DJ): thanks, id say your *comment* too, but you're kinda weird.

(not really feeling much): oh thanks.

(don't feel like DJin): ok, thanks.

(stressed or dont want to talk): heh, thanks.
 

nishbuk

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If you are going to compliment her back, do it in a way that compliments you as well, i.e.

"Oh you have such great taste! That's what I like about you!"


Or another classic.

"You don't like my hat, you're just attracted to me. ;) "

"So do I!" Is another great one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I usually go with "Your only saying that because you want to get in my pants" or "Funny you should mention that, because the last girl who tried to seduce me said the same thing" or "Sure *whatever body part* looks nice but you should feel it"
 

T Money

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"Yeah, I get that a lot." is usually my response, in a joking manner of course.
 

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"I wish girls would stop telling me how good my ___ looks, there's more to me than my looks."

or if you feel like being a jerk

"Wish I could say the same thing about you."

or

"Are YOU trying to hit on me?!?!?" and if she says "no" i'd say "that's too bad, because i liked it"

a little less subtle would be

"Thanks, I wasn't even trying." and if you wanted you could add "Thanks, I wasn't even trying. Unlike you."
 

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Originally posted by T Money
"Yeah, I get that a lot." is usually my response, in a joking manner of course.
I use this line, even on things that have nothing to do with looks.

For instance, I brought a girl back to my place one time, was giving her the "tour" of the place, and pointed out my TV. I said "Oh yeah and here's the living room, sofas, oh, and of course the TV"
Her: "jesus christ, that's the biggest one I've ever seen!"
Me: "Yeah I get that a lot."
she didn't get it for a second, then she turned around and smacked me on the arm with this grin on her face.

I love double entendres :D
 
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