cordoncordon
Master Don Juan
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Ya know relooking at your pics. Is this one of your jokes?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You're obviously very proud of your girlfriends appearance. It's a good thing, but you seem to post her picture all over this board. I'm not sure if she'd be so happy about that.cordoncordon said:Hey comic, you look and seem like a nice guy. Friendly, outgoing......nice. Kinda nerdy in how you dress, but nice. I think you could realllllllly improve your look if you:
worked out-gained at least 30 pounds
grew your hair out-a fauxhawk would be cool
improved your clothing/dress
Now, don't take this as mean ok? I mean you put the pics up so you obviously want to be judged by them. Your gf. Ummmm. I'm sure she is nice and giving to you. Would have to be right? But.....wow, she just is not good looking dude. Maybe a 3. At best. You are definitely better looking then her, and with the right improvements, could be wayy better looking. On the other hand, she really does look like a guy dressed up as a woman. Weird. That being said, you obviously both really care for each other by how you look at each other, and with as much as you have pics of her on your my space, you are obviously proud to be with her, and that means something.
But if you were putting up her pics because you wanted validation here, its not gonna happen.
Here's a pic of my gf. I think she's great, but I would still only give her an 8 or so being realistic, so compare that to the girl you think is an 8.........
Girl in the green dress.
http://img135.imageshack.us/img135/6734/pamtj8.jpg
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ken785 said:Nitpicking my a$s...that thing is half man half woman, ALL BEAST!!
If you post this pic one more damn time I am going to kick your @ss, son!cordoncordon said:Here's a pic of my gf. I think she's great, but I would still only give her an 8 or so being realistic, so compare that to the girl you think is an 8.........
Girl in the green dress.
http://img135.imageshack.us/img135/6734/pamtj8.jpg
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
i think were just poking fun...lighten up man. I think what youre talking about is the Mature Man forum..belividere said:For fvcks sake this thread has made me realize how pathetic this site really is. Comic - absolutely nothing to do with your pics (I didn't even look at them to be honest) the responses by a bunch of guys are fvcking pathetic.
Unless you are willing to put pics up of the girls you actually have been with (and by been with I mean not just jerked off to on the internet) then dont talk **** about guys who will.
As much as I hate it when people ask for new forums on this site, I am going to go out on a limb here and suggest that ss puts up a members only section where guys who dont wont to be ridiculed by virgins can actually share useful advice. Maybe then this site can progress past the high schoolers who want to touch their first boob to a forum where guys who get laid don't have to be ridiculed by those that dont.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ugh huh...iqqi said:Comic seems to truly love his girl, and that is better than any number scale. Besides, true beauty is within. I wouldn't be surprised if CR came back here and told us all that his girl is considered a catch where he lives, because everyone is blinded by her inner beauty!
ugh huh...Maxtro said:While I don't think she is the most attractive woman in the world, she is still a lot better than what the vast majority of guys here have, which is nothing.
For all we know she could be a really great person. There are tons of stuff that we don't know about her. I'm sure comic_relief is into her because of who she is, not just how she looks.
three things:Maxtro said:While I don't think she is the most attractive woman in the world, she is still a lot better than what the vast majority of guys here have, which is nothing.
For all we know she could be a really great person. There are tons of stuff that we don't know about her. I'm sure comic_relief is into her because of who she is, not just how she looks.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.