timmylivingalie
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How you guys go about comforting a chic when shes had a tramatic experience such as a loss of family member or something like that without coming across as a wuss.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Comforting your girlfriend without being a wuss
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
timmylivingalie
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Thanks man I had this problem with a chic once she seemed real upset about her kid and wanted me to comfort her. Didnt know if she was testing me or was really in need. Just looking for a way to act in this situation so if it is a test I will pass and if it is real I can provide what she needs at the time.Stryker said: