timmylivingalie
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How you guys go about comforting a chic when shes had a tramatic experience such as a loss of family member or something like that without coming across as a wuss.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Comforting your girlfriend without being a wuss
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
timmylivingalie
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Thanks man I had this problem with a chic once she seemed real upset about her kid and wanted me to comfort her. Didnt know if she was testing me or was really in need. Just looking for a way to act in this situation so if it is a test I will pass and if it is real I can provide what she needs at the time.Stryker said: