"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Combating Cuteness?

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I am always told I am cute. This is after I have been seeing the girl for a while. Not just from random girls. I would assume random ones would think the same thing.

How does one fight this? I don't think its necessarily bad, far better then being ugly. How does one go from cute to hot?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TenOfSpades said:
I am always told I am cute. This is after I have been seeing the girl for a while. Not just from random girls. I would assume random ones would think the same thing.

How does one fight this? I don't think its necessarily bad, far better then being ugly. How does one go from cute to hot?
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As long as you're attractive it doesn't really matter in my opinion. Looks only get you noticed and if you're anything from ugly you're fine. I'm considered cute myself but I try and stay within that level of stature so I don't overstep and make myself look like an idiot. You cant really go from a Channing Tatum cute to a Jason Statham hot. But then again one girl could say you are cute but the other say you are hot. Genetics man.
 
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"Kittens are cute. I'm masculine" - If you're not masculine, this will only increase your cute status. Don't fight it.

"You're very handsome"
 
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