"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Combating Cuteness?

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I am always told I am cute. This is after I have been seeing the girl for a while. Not just from random girls. I would assume random ones would think the same thing.

How does one fight this? I don't think its necessarily bad, far better then being ugly. How does one go from cute to hot?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TenOfSpades said:
I am always told I am cute. This is after I have been seeing the girl for a while. Not just from random girls. I would assume random ones would think the same thing.

How does one fight this? I don't think its necessarily bad, far better then being ugly. How does one go from cute to hot?
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As long as you're attractive it doesn't really matter in my opinion. Looks only get you noticed and if you're anything from ugly you're fine. I'm considered cute myself but I try and stay within that level of stature so I don't overstep and make myself look like an idiot. You cant really go from a Channing Tatum cute to a Jason Statham hot. But then again one girl could say you are cute but the other say you are hot. Genetics man.
 
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"Kittens are cute. I'm masculine" - If you're not masculine, this will only increase your cute status. Don't fight it.

"You're very handsome"
 
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