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Combating Cuteness?

TenOfSpades

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I am always told I am cute. This is after I have been seeing the girl for a while. Not just from random girls. I would assume random ones would think the same thing.

How does one fight this? I don't think its necessarily bad, far better then being ugly. How does one go from cute to hot?
 

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TenOfSpades said:
I am always told I am cute. This is after I have been seeing the girl for a while. Not just from random girls. I would assume random ones would think the same thing.

How does one fight this? I don't think its necessarily bad, far better then being ugly. How does one go from cute to hot?
As long as you're attractive it doesn't really matter in my opinion. Looks only get you noticed and if you're anything from ugly you're fine. I'm considered cute myself but I try and stay within that level of stature so I don't overstep and make myself look like an idiot. You cant really go from a Channing Tatum cute to a Jason Statham hot. But then again one girl could say you are cute but the other say you are hot. Genetics man.
 

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"Kittens are cute. I'm masculine" - If you're not masculine, this will only increase your cute status. Don't fight it.

"You're very handsome"
 
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