"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Colognes For A DJ

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What colognes do you guys wear that make you smell good and clean and at the same time get compliments from girls?

At the moment i'm using:

L' Eau d' Issey by Issey Miyake (for the summer)

and

Pi by Givenchy (as a winter cologne)


has anyone tried these two?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ive tryed neither i got gucci sport which gets attention ...mont blanc has good colognes
 

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I use Tribute cologne from Mary Kay.. women like it alot but im thinking of having another so not to only wear that.
 

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Usually 1747 from galimard. Starting to think it's not worth it ordering overseas though. In my experience as long as your cologne isn't a really smoky old-school leathery type, it isn't going to matter for the girls.
 

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I would not use the PI Cologne - why? Because all of my mates have gotten NEGATIVE comments from girls, it is not man enough.

I am using Diesel; Fuel for life & Brave, or the D&G Nr. 1 Fragrance (SUMMER)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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NorwegianDJ

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Sup UFC, how you doing?
There is a thread for this already in the archives, really good stuff.
I barely use cologne, but I use a lacoste one, which has gotten me some compliments. A specific would be:
Her: *Taking off my t-shirt while being close to me*
Her: *Smells it*
Her: *Refuses to take off my shirt*
So colognes aren't always good! :D
 
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