"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Colognes For A DJ

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What colognes do you guys wear that make you smell good and clean and at the same time get compliments from girls?

At the moment i'm using:

L' Eau d' Issey by Issey Miyake (for the summer)

and

Pi by Givenchy (as a winter cologne)


has anyone tried these two?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ive tryed neither i got gucci sport which gets attention ...mont blanc has good colognes
 

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I use Tribute cologne from Mary Kay.. women like it alot but im thinking of having another so not to only wear that.
 

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Usually 1747 from galimard. Starting to think it's not worth it ordering overseas though. In my experience as long as your cologne isn't a really smoky old-school leathery type, it isn't going to matter for the girls.
 

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I would not use the PI Cologne - why? Because all of my mates have gotten NEGATIVE comments from girls, it is not man enough.

I am using Diesel; Fuel for life & Brave, or the D&G Nr. 1 Fragrance (SUMMER)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NorwegianDJ

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Sup UFC, how you doing?
There is a thread for this already in the archives, really good stuff.
I barely use cologne, but I use a lacoste one, which has gotten me some compliments. A specific would be:
Her: *Taking off my t-shirt while being close to me*
Her: *Smells it*
Her: *Refuses to take off my shirt*
So colognes aren't always good! :D
 
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