"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Colognes For A DJ

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What colognes do you guys wear that make you smell good and clean and at the same time get compliments from girls?

At the moment i'm using:

L' Eau d' Issey by Issey Miyake (for the summer)

and

Pi by Givenchy (as a winter cologne)


has anyone tried these two?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ive tryed neither i got gucci sport which gets attention ...mont blanc has good colognes
 
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I use Tribute cologne from Mary Kay.. women like it alot but im thinking of having another so not to only wear that.
 
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Usually 1747 from galimard. Starting to think it's not worth it ordering overseas though. In my experience as long as your cologne isn't a really smoky old-school leathery type, it isn't going to matter for the girls.
 
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I would not use the PI Cologne - why? Because all of my mates have gotten NEGATIVE comments from girls, it is not man enough.

I am using Diesel; Fuel for life & Brave, or the D&G Nr. 1 Fragrance (SUMMER)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sup UFC, how you doing?
There is a thread for this already in the archives, really good stuff.
I barely use cologne, but I use a lacoste one, which has gotten me some compliments. A specific would be:
Her: *Taking off my t-shirt while being close to me*
Her: *Smells it*
Her: *Refuses to take off my shirt*
So colognes aren't always good! :D
 
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