"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Anhslaught

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Well just the other day a friend of mine(female) who I very much like asked another friend of mine what cologne I wore coz it smelled really good. I think she smelled it when I had my arms around her in the pic. Man she's so cute and I love her voice. She's so petite. I kind of wish I didn't make fun of her so much before.

I didn't wear anything that nite, not sure what she was smelling, maybe my hair wax?

I think she knows that I like her, but I've heard from friends that she's said some horrible stuff about me blah blah when her friend said she should hook up with me. She still gives out signals ...mixed signals. I don't wanna mess up my cool guy image around her and make her think I need her ass, so I been hesitant to make a move. She even brought a chick and was like "HEY I BROUGHT YOU A BLIND DATE!" The girl and I looked at eachother all wierd. I think she was kidding, but still, what the hell? A few months ago, she even told me I looked better with my old hair, I should get it back and all. She's a good friend, I go out with her once in awhile. Never asked her out somewhere with just us. Always her friend there. She also thinks im a jump shipper coz back when I first knew her, she always tells me that I'm nasty sleeping around so much, but I'm not like that anymore.


Anyhow, with just that cologne question asked, is there anyway she's attracted to me? Must be something right? Since she sniffed me up. lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If a girl smells a nice cologne on you is she more likely to be flirty?
 

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I just got a new job a bank so you have to smell good. Bought a 60 dollar bottle of cologne. When I go out places if Im dressed nice and wear good cologne does that attract girls?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i think its does. Have you ever got a feeling where a chick smelled good you wanted to hug her all day?
 

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Originally posted by knight56
i think its does. Have you ever got a feeling where a chick smelled good you wanted to hug her all day?
I suppose.
 

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i think its does. Have you ever got a feeling where a chick smelled good you wanted to hug her all day?
No, it's true, some girls i wouldn't have even looked twice at, but after they walked past and i smell them it has some emotional effect on me or something, it's weird.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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