"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well just the other day a friend of mine(female) who I very much like asked another friend of mine what cologne I wore coz it smelled really good. I think she smelled it when I had my arms around her in the pic. Man she's so cute and I love her voice. She's so petite. I kind of wish I didn't make fun of her so much before.

I didn't wear anything that nite, not sure what she was smelling, maybe my hair wax?

I think she knows that I like her, but I've heard from friends that she's said some horrible stuff about me blah blah when her friend said she should hook up with me. She still gives out signals ...mixed signals. I don't wanna mess up my cool guy image around her and make her think I need her ass, so I been hesitant to make a move. She even brought a chick and was like "HEY I BROUGHT YOU A BLIND DATE!" The girl and I looked at eachother all wierd. I think she was kidding, but still, what the hell? A few months ago, she even told me I looked better with my old hair, I should get it back and all. She's a good friend, I go out with her once in awhile. Never asked her out somewhere with just us. Always her friend there. She also thinks im a jump shipper coz back when I first knew her, she always tells me that I'm nasty sleeping around so much, but I'm not like that anymore.


Anyhow, with just that cologne question asked, is there anyway she's attracted to me? Must be something right? Since she sniffed me up. lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If a girl smells a nice cologne on you is she more likely to be flirty?
 

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I just got a new job a bank so you have to smell good. Bought a 60 dollar bottle of cologne. When I go out places if Im dressed nice and wear good cologne does that attract girls?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i think its does. Have you ever got a feeling where a chick smelled good you wanted to hug her all day?
 

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Originally posted by knight56
i think its does. Have you ever got a feeling where a chick smelled good you wanted to hug her all day?
I suppose.
 

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i think its does. Have you ever got a feeling where a chick smelled good you wanted to hug her all day?
No, it's true, some girls i wouldn't have even looked twice at, but after they walked past and i smell them it has some emotional effect on me or something, it's weird.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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