"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Well just the other day a friend of mine(female) who I very much like asked another friend of mine what cologne I wore coz it smelled really good. I think she smelled it when I had my arms around her in the pic. Man she's so cute and I love her voice. She's so petite. I kind of wish I didn't make fun of her so much before.

I didn't wear anything that nite, not sure what she was smelling, maybe my hair wax?

I think she knows that I like her, but I've heard from friends that she's said some horrible stuff about me blah blah when her friend said she should hook up with me. She still gives out signals ...mixed signals. I don't wanna mess up my cool guy image around her and make her think I need her ass, so I been hesitant to make a move. She even brought a chick and was like "HEY I BROUGHT YOU A BLIND DATE!" The girl and I looked at eachother all wierd. I think she was kidding, but still, what the hell? A few months ago, she even told me I looked better with my old hair, I should get it back and all. She's a good friend, I go out with her once in awhile. Never asked her out somewhere with just us. Always her friend there. She also thinks im a jump shipper coz back when I first knew her, she always tells me that I'm nasty sleeping around so much, but I'm not like that anymore.


Anyhow, with just that cologne question asked, is there anyway she's attracted to me? Must be something right? Since she sniffed me up. lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If a girl smells a nice cologne on you is she more likely to be flirty?
 

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I just got a new job a bank so you have to smell good. Bought a 60 dollar bottle of cologne. When I go out places if Im dressed nice and wear good cologne does that attract girls?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i think its does. Have you ever got a feeling where a chick smelled good you wanted to hug her all day?
 

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Originally posted by knight56
i think its does. Have you ever got a feeling where a chick smelled good you wanted to hug her all day?
I suppose.
 

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i think its does. Have you ever got a feeling where a chick smelled good you wanted to hug her all day?
No, it's true, some girls i wouldn't have even looked twice at, but after they walked past and i smell them it has some emotional effect on me or something, it's weird.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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