Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Well just the other day a friend of mine(female) who I very much like asked another friend of mine what cologne I wore coz it smelled really good. I think she smelled it when I had my arms around her in the pic. Man she's so cute and I love her voice. She's so petite. I kind of wish I didn't make fun of her so much before.

I didn't wear anything that nite, not sure what she was smelling, maybe my hair wax?

I think she knows that I like her, but I've heard from friends that she's said some horrible stuff about me blah blah when her friend said she should hook up with me. She still gives out signals ...mixed signals. I don't wanna mess up my cool guy image around her and make her think I need her ass, so I been hesitant to make a move. She even brought a chick and was like "HEY I BROUGHT YOU A BLIND DATE!" The girl and I looked at eachother all wierd. I think she was kidding, but still, what the hell? A few months ago, she even told me I looked better with my old hair, I should get it back and all. She's a good friend, I go out with her once in awhile. Never asked her out somewhere with just us. Always her friend there. She also thinks im a jump shipper coz back when I first knew her, she always tells me that I'm nasty sleeping around so much, but I'm not like that anymore.


Anyhow, with just that cologne question asked, is there anyway she's attracted to me? Must be something right? Since she sniffed me up. lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If a girl smells a nice cologne on you is she more likely to be flirty?
 

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I just got a new job a bank so you have to smell good. Bought a 60 dollar bottle of cologne. When I go out places if Im dressed nice and wear good cologne does that attract girls?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i think its does. Have you ever got a feeling where a chick smelled good you wanted to hug her all day?
 

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Originally posted by knight56
i think its does. Have you ever got a feeling where a chick smelled good you wanted to hug her all day?
I suppose.
 

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i think its does. Have you ever got a feeling where a chick smelled good you wanted to hug her all day?
No, it's true, some girls i wouldn't have even looked twice at, but after they walked past and i smell them it has some emotional effect on me or something, it's weird.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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