Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I use Fierce as well. But recently I've switched to Armani Black Code. Either way, both are supposed to amp up your pheromones. Plus, they smell good.ExcelNPrevail said:I use Fierce and Hugo. I spay some on my fingertips and smooth it on behind my ears. I started doing this because most of the time when girls hug me they either compliment or just seem like there stuck to me smelling my ears..lol
Yeah for sure. Pretty much every day. Sometime's I'll forget and it's not a big deal. Chicks just dig a guy who smells good. Chicks dig a guy who smells good ALL THE TIME for that reason.LostAndConfused said:Thanks for the input....anyone wear it regularly in high school though?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
everyday if i dont forget lol:rockon:LostAndConfused said:Thanks for the input....anyone wear it regularly in high school though?
Your doing a little overthinking here. You should work on your game more than the small stuff. Cuz for one cologne is just a gimmick, its designed to make girls horny but in actuallity it doesn't. Scientist actually found that perfume turns girls on more than cologne, and your not going to wear that either. So like most small things in the game you don't want to stress them you just want to get the basics, and with cologne/smell the basic is to smell clean. Just make sure you take a GOOD shower and wear deodarant and you'll be fine and have an extra 100 dollars in your pocket, from not buying cologne.LostAndConfused said:I was just wondering, how many of you who are in high school (or remember this from your high school years) if you wore cologne on a day to day basis?
I'm not talking about Axe or any body spray because that stuff is cheap and we can always wear it every day, but what about cologne?
I tried it one day and got compliments from girls I've never even talked to but I've been going to high school with for many years.
:EDIT: Also, how do you put your cologne on? Do you spray in the air and walk into the mist? Any particular method to not make it overbearing?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.