That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I use Fierce as well. But recently I've switched to Armani Black Code. Either way, both are supposed to amp up your pheromones. Plus, they smell good.ExcelNPrevail said:I use Fierce and Hugo. I spay some on my fingertips and smooth it on behind my ears. I started doing this because most of the time when girls hug me they either compliment or just seem like there stuck to me smelling my ears..lol
Yeah for sure. Pretty much every day. Sometime's I'll forget and it's not a big deal. Chicks just dig a guy who smells good. Chicks dig a guy who smells good ALL THE TIME for that reason.LostAndConfused said:Thanks for the input....anyone wear it regularly in high school though?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
everyday if i dont forget lol:rockon:LostAndConfused said:Thanks for the input....anyone wear it regularly in high school though?
Your doing a little overthinking here. You should work on your game more than the small stuff. Cuz for one cologne is just a gimmick, its designed to make girls horny but in actuallity it doesn't. Scientist actually found that perfume turns girls on more than cologne, and your not going to wear that either. So like most small things in the game you don't want to stress them you just want to get the basics, and with cologne/smell the basic is to smell clean. Just make sure you take a GOOD shower and wear deodarant and you'll be fine and have an extra 100 dollars in your pocket, from not buying cologne.LostAndConfused said:I was just wondering, how many of you who are in high school (or remember this from your high school years) if you wore cologne on a day to day basis?
I'm not talking about Axe or any body spray because that stuff is cheap and we can always wear it every day, but what about cologne?
I tried it one day and got compliments from girls I've never even talked to but I've been going to high school with for many years.
:EDIT: Also, how do you put your cologne on? Do you spray in the air and walk into the mist? Any particular method to not make it overbearing?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.