She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I use Fierce as well. But recently I've switched to Armani Black Code. Either way, both are supposed to amp up your pheromones. Plus, they smell good.ExcelNPrevail said:I use Fierce and Hugo. I spay some on my fingertips and smooth it on behind my ears. I started doing this because most of the time when girls hug me they either compliment or just seem like there stuck to me smelling my ears..lol
Yeah for sure. Pretty much every day. Sometime's I'll forget and it's not a big deal. Chicks just dig a guy who smells good. Chicks dig a guy who smells good ALL THE TIME for that reason.LostAndConfused said:Thanks for the input....anyone wear it regularly in high school though?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
everyday if i dont forget lol:rockon:LostAndConfused said:Thanks for the input....anyone wear it regularly in high school though?
Your doing a little overthinking here. You should work on your game more than the small stuff. Cuz for one cologne is just a gimmick, its designed to make girls horny but in actuallity it doesn't. Scientist actually found that perfume turns girls on more than cologne, and your not going to wear that either. So like most small things in the game you don't want to stress them you just want to get the basics, and with cologne/smell the basic is to smell clean. Just make sure you take a GOOD shower and wear deodarant and you'll be fine and have an extra 100 dollars in your pocket, from not buying cologne.LostAndConfused said:I was just wondering, how many of you who are in high school (or remember this from your high school years) if you wore cologne on a day to day basis?
I'm not talking about Axe or any body spray because that stuff is cheap and we can always wear it every day, but what about cologne?
I tried it one day and got compliments from girls I've never even talked to but I've been going to high school with for many years.
:EDIT: Also, how do you put your cologne on? Do you spray in the air and walk into the mist? Any particular method to not make it overbearing?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.