I'm going to be entering college as a freshman this coming september. I'm pretty psyched. but I'm a litle nervous too. what shuld I need to know about the whole college experience, any tips or advice to having a great freshman yr?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
college.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
College is what you make of it. If you wanted to, you could go somewhere and party literally every day. You can meet a lot of girls, make a lot of new friends, get good grades, or you can do none of the above. My advice to you is to talk to as many people as you can (guys and girls) and just be cool with them. I'm taking summer classes right now and I've met a lot of cute girls in my classes, but a lot of guys in the class will sit there and keep to themselves for the entire class. Either that or they'll find a high school buddy of theirs and make the excuse that they don't know anyone in the class, so they won't make an effort to meet anyone. Don't be that guy.dre007 said:
Another piece of advice, DON'T (capitalized for a reason) go out and drink heavily on Thursdays if you have morning class, and most importantly, GO TO CLASS EVERYDAY AND GET YOUR HOMEWORK DONE. There is no sh1ttier feeling than bombing a test. You're not in college to party your life away (even though you could if you wanted to) so make sure you get your stuff done before you bag that fine honey sitting 2 rows in front of you. I've approached a LOT of girls on my campus and every one of them has been nice to me. A lot of guys won't talk to people they don't know, so make sure you go out of your way to introduce yourself to the hot girls in your classes!
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Key advice! Make sure ur grades are on point....otherwise you'll be regretting, like myself trying to get good ones again. Remember that u'll definitely be getting more interest from girls if u approach, as the average college guy is too afraid to...be the guy that these girls will talk about. Definitely talk to as many people as u can....as they can help u out in the roughest times(if ur too drunk to walk). Definitely get to know your RA's and RDs, believe me...they'll be alot of help to you 