I'm going to be entering college as a freshman this coming september. I'm pretty psyched. but I'm a litle nervous too. what shuld I need to know about the whole college experience, any tips or advice to having a great freshman yr?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
College is what you make of it. If you wanted to, you could go somewhere and party literally every day. You can meet a lot of girls, make a lot of new friends, get good grades, or you can do none of the above. My advice to you is to talk to as many people as you can (guys and girls) and just be cool with them. I'm taking summer classes right now and I've met a lot of cute girls in my classes, but a lot of guys in the class will sit there and keep to themselves for the entire class. Either that or they'll find a high school buddy of theirs and make the excuse that they don't know anyone in the class, so they won't make an effort to meet anyone. Don't be that guy.dre007 said:
Another piece of advice, DON'T (capitalized for a reason) go out and drink heavily on Thursdays if you have morning class, and most importantly, GO TO CLASS EVERYDAY AND GET YOUR HOMEWORK DONE. There is no sh1ttier feeling than bombing a test. You're not in college to party your life away (even though you could if you wanted to) so make sure you get your stuff done before you bag that fine honey sitting 2 rows in front of you. I've approached a LOT of girls on my campus and every one of them has been nice to me. A lot of guys won't talk to people they don't know, so make sure you go out of your way to introduce yourself to the hot girls in your classes!
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Key advice! Make sure ur grades are on point....otherwise you'll be regretting, like myself trying to get good ones again. Remember that u'll definitely be getting more interest from girls if u approach, as the average college guy is too afraid to...be the guy that these girls will talk about. Definitely talk to as many people as u can....as they can help u out in the roughest times(if ur too drunk to walk). Definitely get to know your RA's and RDs, believe me...they'll be alot of help to you 