I'm going to be entering college as a freshman this coming september. I'm pretty psyched. but I'm a litle nervous too. what shuld I need to know about the whole college experience, any tips or advice to having a great freshman yr?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
College is what you make of it. If you wanted to, you could go somewhere and party literally every day. You can meet a lot of girls, make a lot of new friends, get good grades, or you can do none of the above. My advice to you is to talk to as many people as you can (guys and girls) and just be cool with them. I'm taking summer classes right now and I've met a lot of cute girls in my classes, but a lot of guys in the class will sit there and keep to themselves for the entire class. Either that or they'll find a high school buddy of theirs and make the excuse that they don't know anyone in the class, so they won't make an effort to meet anyone. Don't be that guy.dre007 said:
Another piece of advice, DON'T (capitalized for a reason) go out and drink heavily on Thursdays if you have morning class, and most importantly, GO TO CLASS EVERYDAY AND GET YOUR HOMEWORK DONE. There is no sh1ttier feeling than bombing a test. You're not in college to party your life away (even though you could if you wanted to) so make sure you get your stuff done before you bag that fine honey sitting 2 rows in front of you. I've approached a LOT of girls on my campus and every one of them has been nice to me. A lot of guys won't talk to people they don't know, so make sure you go out of your way to introduce yourself to the hot girls in your classes!
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Key advice! Make sure ur grades are on point....otherwise you'll be regretting, like myself trying to get good ones again. Remember that u'll definitely be getting more interest from girls if u approach, as the average college guy is too afraid to...be the guy that these girls will talk about. Definitely talk to as many people as u can....as they can help u out in the roughest times(if ur too drunk to walk). Definitely get to know your RA's and RDs, believe me...they'll be alot of help to you 