"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spartan301

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Having returned to school recently, I came across a great site with a few good articles on college dating. I saw something that I wish came out during my freshman year. I figure it's better to put it here than the high school threads, but feel free to check it out.

http://www.collegedatingtips.org/get-laid-college-freshmen

What I learned that any D-Juan, regardless of age, can get out of it:

-First Impressions MATTER: this is a universal rule in and out of college. Have your style fit the age group and fit the niche. In this case, it mentioned owning a cardigan or two, and a great pair of jeans. Oh, and grooming, always a must.

-Make many friends ASAP: Whatever niche or enviroment you're in, make friends, and do it fast. Be the first to break the ice and build your status EARLY.

-Try some low pressure dates with you women: concerts, lunch with friends, sometimes even starbucks. Why go excessive? Sometimes the simple does the trick.

I basically cliff-noted the page I saw, but if you want, take a look. It's worth a check out.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It seems like I unwittingly did all that when I was a freshman in college. But there's really nothing new or ground-breaking mentioned in that article; at least nothing that you wouldn't get from the DJ Bible.

And also, it depends on where you go to college. Colleges have a tendency to be dynamic depending on where in the country/region you go.
 

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As a college sophomore I can tell you... almost everyone in college dresses like sh!t. Dress slightly better in any way (whether its preppy, gangster, hipster or your own style) and you're already much farther ahead of the pack. People see you and automatically gravitate to you, then its your job to keep up the rest of the game.
 
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