"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Spartan301

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Having returned to school recently, I came across a great site with a few good articles on college dating. I saw something that I wish came out during my freshman year. I figure it's better to put it here than the high school threads, but feel free to check it out.

http://www.collegedatingtips.org/get-laid-college-freshmen

What I learned that any D-Juan, regardless of age, can get out of it:

-First Impressions MATTER: this is a universal rule in and out of college. Have your style fit the age group and fit the niche. In this case, it mentioned owning a cardigan or two, and a great pair of jeans. Oh, and grooming, always a must.

-Make many friends ASAP: Whatever niche or enviroment you're in, make friends, and do it fast. Be the first to break the ice and build your status EARLY.

-Try some low pressure dates with you women: concerts, lunch with friends, sometimes even starbucks. Why go excessive? Sometimes the simple does the trick.

I basically cliff-noted the page I saw, but if you want, take a look. It's worth a check out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It seems like I unwittingly did all that when I was a freshman in college. But there's really nothing new or ground-breaking mentioned in that article; at least nothing that you wouldn't get from the DJ Bible.

And also, it depends on where you go to college. Colleges have a tendency to be dynamic depending on where in the country/region you go.
 

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As a college sophomore I can tell you... almost everyone in college dresses like sh!t. Dress slightly better in any way (whether its preppy, gangster, hipster or your own style) and you're already much farther ahead of the pack. People see you and automatically gravitate to you, then its your job to keep up the rest of the game.
 
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